Shallow Men. I was talking with a friend of mine and I made the comment that she was as shallow as us men were, which got me thinking that in a lot of ways, when we start talking about relationships and how they didn't work out, if I'm honest with myself, that while character counts, looks do as well, and could play into the factor of whether or not I can see her as my wife. Yes, I know that's shallow, and I'm brainwashed by media on what beautiful is (see this dove commercial), but at the same time, it's a disservice to say that it plays no factor at all. It goes both ways. She's hot, and you stay in the relationship even though you know that you shouldn't.
All this isn't really that profound at all. I just have noticed in the last couple years of my life, how much this has played into my mind. I get pickier and pickier, demanding that my wife be a on fire christian, model, backpacker, charming, loves life, etc, etc...and there isn't anyone in the world that will fit my description. It sucks. Now that I have been away from TV for a while, it's good, but then walking downtown chicago, seeing all the hotties walking around here doesn't help either...and those hotties aren't really what I want either.
ok, now I'm rambling. I'm glad that this is semi-private, so no one has to listen to my blather. :)
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